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Sexual Integrity Strengthens Us

ABOUT THIS UNIT

Main Ideas

1) Sexual desires are needful, appropriate, and a joyous part of human nature.

2) Pre-marital sex and infidelity harm the individual, children, families and societies.

3) When we, as a society, walked away from chastity, we walked away from our children.

4) The Sexual Revolution normalized pornography, pre-marital sex, abortion, unwed childbearing and the family breakdown.

Activities

1) Interview a family member about their wedding day. What made it special? Where did they get married? Why did they choose to marry their spouse? Share with the family.

2) Make a plan to be chaste. What do you commit to do? Read your plan to your family.

3) Make a wedding cake and decorate it together.

Daily Resources

Short daily resources for discussing Homefront topics with your children.

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DO NOT USE; THIS IS HIDDEN

It’s a blessing to be a parent and see your children grow, learn, and discover joy.

Parents:

How the Sexual Revolution hijacked feminismView Now

Family:

Baby Hears Mom’s Voice.                                    View Now

Discuss:

What are some of your favorite moments with your parent/child?

Resource 1: Sexual integrity is freedom

Sexual integrity is not repressive, it is freedom. It means you believe in love.

Parents:

Freedom of Chastity
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Family:

Love and Marriage
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Discuss:

Why is having sexual integrity important to an individual, to a family, to a community?

Resource 2: More dynamic relationships

Sexual Integrity helps create more dynamic relationships.

Parents:

Does Sexual Integrity make relationships boring?
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Family:

The Road Not Taken  
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Discuss:

What difference might choosing sexual integrity make in your life?

Resource 3: Safe and lasting relationships

Sex only in marriage helps create a safe and lasting relationship.

Parents:

Fewer Sex Partners Means a Happier Marriage               
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Family:

Can You Feel the Love Tonight?
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Discuss:

If something is special to you, how do you treat it differently?

Resource 4: Less Commitment and the Importance of Families

The Sexual Revolution resulted in less commitment and deemphasized the importance of families

Parents:

Five Paradoxes of the Sexual Revolution, Part 1 and 2
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Family:

My body belongs to me, from my head to my toes
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Discuss:

What does it mean to “use” someone? How would that make them like an object? Creating real/true relationships helps avoid this.

Resource 5: Not lowering my standards

I would rather be single my whole life, holding out for someone totally awesome, than lowering my standards.

Parents:

The hardest thing about not having sex before marriage was not what I expected
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Family:

Learning to Wait
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Discuss:

Why is it important to wait until marriage to have sex?  How might understanding and applying sexual integrity help me reserve sexual relations for marriage?

Resource 6: Objects vs Individuals

Sexual integrity prevents people from being treated as objects instead of individuals of worth.

Parents:

I thought casual sex would be empowering, but it was the opposite
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Family:

Counterfeit
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Discuss:

What are some ways to identify ideas about sex and marriage that are counterfeit?

Resource 7: Sexual integrity always empowers and strengthens

Sexual Integrity always empowers and strengthens the individual, their spouse and their relationship, even if they haven’t yet met.

Parents:

The Longerterm Cost of hookup Culture
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Family:

Integrity
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Discuss:

What is integrity?  How does sexual integrity strengthen your marriage if you aren’t even married yet?

Resource 8: People are lonelier now than ever before

People are lonelier now than ever before.  Saving intimacy for marriage will help couples find someone who truly values them.

Parents:

Unstanding the Sexual Trends in the Dating Culture
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Family:

What is the Value of Your Life?
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Discuss:

Tell about a time when you felt special and loved.  Who was there and where were you?

Resource 9: Chastity can be chosen every moment of every day

Chastity can be chosen every moment of every day, regardless of what you have chosen in the past. 

Parents:

Is It Too Late For Me? 
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Family:

A New Day
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Discuss:

What are you happy to have left in the past?

Resource 10: Modesty and Dignity

Protecting myself with sexual integrity 

Parents:

Cheap Sex Is the ‘Inconvenient Truth’ that Explains the Retreat from Marriage
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Family:

Milk and Dish Soap Experiment 
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Discuss:

What’s one decision you will make today that will help you maintain sexual integrity throughout your life?

Review

Review

Parents:

Discussion Question Survey
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Family:

Matching Talking Point Game

Click a card, listen, then click another card to find its match.  No match?  Click a new card and start again.  Make sure sound it on to hear all the card information.

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Discuss:

How many Talking Points do you know?

Role Play #1

Role Play #1

Scenario:

Someone says, “Everyone is having sex without being married. You’re not going to stop it. And it’s not that big a deal; it doesn’t hurt anyone.” 

Response:

Talking Point: When we, as a society, walked away from chastity, we walked away from our children. The victims of the bad ideas of the sexual revolution have always been children.

Role Play #2

Role Play #2

Scenario:

Someone is criticizing you for choosing to have sexual integrity; or making fun of your beliefs that sex should be saved for marriage. What would you say?

Response:

Talking Point: Integrity is a deliberate choice not to devalue yourself or others sexually. Each person should have control over their decisions and experiences. A conscious choice to have sexual integrity creates selfesteem throughout a person’s life.

Reflect

Reflect

Parents:

Review some additional Homefront Project articles/videos from Sexual Revolution.  
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Family:

  1. What did you learn? 
  2. What do you want to do differently? 
  3. What were you surprised by? 
  4. With whom do you want to share what you learned?

Discuss:

Which was your favorite resource or video?

Summarize and Share

Summarize and Share

Parents:

Unit Survey
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Family:

Which is your favorite image to share from the Sexual Revolution unit?
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Discuss:

Who will you share this with?

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