Homefront Kids 3
Sexual Integrity Strengthens Us
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Main Ideas
1) Sexual desires are needful, appropriate, and a joyous part of human nature.
2) Pre-marital sex and infidelity harm the individual, children, families and societies.
3) When we, as a society, walked away from chastity, we walked away from our children.
4) The Sexual Revolution normalized pornography, pre-marital sex, abortion, unwed childbearing and the family breakdown.
Activities
1) Interview a family member about their wedding day. What made it special? Where did they get married? Why did they choose to marry their spouse? Share with the family.
2) Make a plan to be chaste. What do you commit to do? Read your plan to your family.
3) Make a wedding cake and decorate it together.
Daily Resources
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Resource 1: Sexual integrity is freedom
Resource 2: More dynamic relationships
Resource 3: Safe and lasting relationships
Resource 4: Less Commitment and the Importance of Families
The Sexual Revolution resulted in less commitment and deemphasized the importance of families
Parents:
Five Paradoxes of the Sexual Revolution, Part 1 and 2
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Family:
My body belongs to me, from my head to my toes
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Discuss:
What does it mean to “use” someone? How would that make them like an object? Creating real/true relationships helps avoid this.
Resource 5: Not lowering my standards
I would rather be single my whole life, holding out for someone totally awesome, than lowering my standards.
Parents:
The hardest thing about not having sex before marriage was not what I expected
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Family:
Learning to Wait
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Discuss:
Why is it important to wait until marriage to have sex? How might understanding and applying sexual integrity help me reserve sexual relations for marriage?
Resource 6: Objects vs Individuals
Resource 7: Sexual integrity always empowers and strengthens
Sexual Integrity always empowers and strengthens the individual, their spouse and their relationship, even if they haven’t yet met.
Parents:
The Longerterm Cost of hookup Culture
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Family:
Integrity
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Discuss:
What is integrity? How does sexual integrity strengthen your marriage if you aren’t even married yet?
Resource 8: People are lonelier now than ever before
People are lonelier now than ever before. Saving intimacy for marriage will help couples find someone who truly values them.
Parents:
Unstanding the Sexual Trends in the Dating Culture
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Family:
What is the Value of Your Life?
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Discuss:
Tell about a time when you felt special and loved. Who was there and where were you?
Resource 9: Chastity can be chosen every moment of every day
Resource 10: Modesty and Dignity
Review
Review
Parents:
Discussion Question Survey
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Family:
Matching Talking Point Game
Click a card, listen, then click another card to find its match. No match? Click a new card and start again. Make sure sound it on to hear all the card information.
Discuss:
How many Talking Points do you know?
Role Play #1
Role Play #1
Scenario:
Someone says, “Everyone is having sex without being married. You’re not going to stop it. And it’s not that big a deal; it doesn’t hurt anyone.”
Response:
Talking Point: When we, as a society, walked away from chastity, we walked away from our children. The victims of the bad ideas of the sexual revolution have always been children.
Role Play #2
Role Play #2
Scenario:
Someone is criticizing you for choosing to have sexual integrity; or making fun of your beliefs that sex should be saved for marriage. What would you say?
Response:
Talking Point: Integrity is a deliberate choice not to devalue yourself or others sexually. Each person should have control over their decisions and experiences. A conscious choice to have sexual integrity creates selfesteem throughout a person’s life.
Reflect
Reflect
Parents:
Review some additional Homefront Project articles/videos from Sexual Revolution.
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Family:
- What did you learn?
- What do you want to do differently?
- What were you surprised by?
- With whom do you want to share what you learned?
Discuss:
Which was your favorite resource or video?
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